Tuesday, March 23, 2010

Moving Forward...

For the last few days, I have been pondering how birthparents are able to move on with life after making an adoption plan for a child. What tools does it take to be able to move forward? Adoption is a loss and sometimes how to get over that loss, seems impossible.

Here is all I could come up with:

I had to be still before I could move forward. And in my stillness, I grasped acceptance.

What? Yes, I had to be still before I could take my next big steps in life. With any loss, you need time to process the event, adjust your dreams and learn to find a new normal. I needed time to grieve, to regroup, to breathe…. But I mainly needed time to accept what had happened. During my time of stillness, I was able to accept the decision I had made. Once I could accept my adoption decision fully, I was able to move forward. I was able to find peace and I was able to empower myself to move forward.

Do you agree?


“God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. “ (Psalm 46:1)


  1. Anonymous3/25/2010

    I shoot for a goal in life and my family keeps me moving.

  2. Anonymous3/26/2010

    I totally agree. It was a pain unlike any I had felt before and honestly it took me a long time to find peace. But God is good and will get you through it if you let Him have control of your life.


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